Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Reflections by Eugene Teh
Reflections by Siok Chen
Having attended a summer programme at Peking University just last year, there were inevitable comparisons between the students at Peking University and the Chinese delegates of this programme. While Peking students are studious and ambitious (taking 6-7 or more modules in university is the norm), the students of Tianjin, Tongji, Nankai and East China (Science & Tech) are more laid-back and fun. But as far as general impressions go, the differences could probably be attributed to the fact that the delegates are not in their home country and are instead on a ‘holiday’.
Having said that, through the few days of interaction, what struck me the most is how I ought to be thankful of what I am given and where I am. While the Chinese delegates ooh-ed and ahh-ed over the fantastic greenery present in Singapore, I rarely even stop to appreciate it and perhaps only complain for the lack of trees when the weather gets too hot. While Chinese delegates worry about the worth of their degrees in China (and having learnt that most pursue a masters to make them more marketable), I once complained about not being able to study overseas for a more prestigious degree. [NUS patriots, please don’t bash me, my thinking stemmed from my educational background and is no longer representative of my thinking now].
While they have to tolerate (and perhaps also accept) some unfairness in the political, educational and social systems of China, we complain (and I speak generically of the Singapore culture) all the time about everything political, educational and social, sometimes without being grateful for the benefits (for what it’s worth) Singapore has given us. Before I ramble on and stumble into the realm of NE, perhaps its last to add the Chinese delegates taught me what’s really called 知足.
Lastly, a big thank you to everyone, especially Group 3 for making the Singapore leg such a fun and memorable experience for me. Special thanks to the Chinese delegates in Group 3 - Mao Mao for being so crazily fun (seriously, her Lady Gaga moves were phenomenal), Chi Lin for being such a foodie-durian lover and basically treated to us to 毛山王 durians, Liang Chen for fascinating me with the food he has eaten (according to him - everything under the sky and within his means, except rats), Ling Zi for providing me lots of insights and gossips, Xiao Lin for being so hospitable (in advance) – she was the first to check with us on where we want to go when we are in Shanghai, Wang Ting for telling me so much about 内蒙古 and its culture (which is really fascinating), and everyone else for being really enthusiastic, sporting and fun!
Reflections by Han Liang
The last time I was formally exposed to Chinese language and Chinese culture was actually during my secondary school days, many years ago. This is one of the reasons why I joined SSUE – to rekindle the memorable learning experiences I had during my teenage years. There are still many aspects of the rich Chinese culture that I have yet to learn and explore, and I hope to bridge my gaps in information through SSUE.
During my interaction with the Chinese delegates from 13 to 16 March 2010, I gradually regained the momentum to converse in Chinese, a language that I use less often now compared to the past. Thus, my experiences with the delegates basically redefined and reemphasized my heritage of being a Chinese.
My experiences in SSUE so far has also reaffirmed my pride in being a Singaporean. It gives me great pleasure when I am able to introduce and showcase Singapore's architectural wonders and unique places of interest to the Chinese undergraduates!
Lastly, the SSUE has allowed me to forge friendships with many other enthusiastic and like-minded students from NUS. I hope everyone can learn from one another and enjoy each other’s company when we head off to China in May!
Reflections by Jeremy
I would say that throughout Sino-Sing, among all the indelible memories and valuable experiences, I was definitely made painfully aware of one thing: I am not a very good Mandarin speaker. This weakness crippled me in my encounters with the Chinese delegates, and it made me realize, albeit bitterly, that effective communication is so crucial to establishing a sense of rapport with them. I have made it my resolution to return one day with renewed fluency in Mandarin. The good news is that the Chinese delegates mostly understood what I was trying to convey as they made a conscientious effort to listen carefully.
That aside, I absolutely enjoyed every moment of Sino-Sing. At the start, we interacted with our Chinese delegates on a very professional and official level. Of course, as the days went by, the barriers started to break down and the delegates began to loosen up. While some delegates continued to be polite and diplomatic, others started to express themselves more freely (they know who they are!). I am glad that eventually we did not just exchange pleasant words, but instead held markedly intellectual and thought-provoking conversations that went beyond the surface.
I also realized that the delegates, while brilliant, shared the same joys and challenges as us. All of us enjoyed food, fun and laughter and gravitated towards such activities. It was truly an affirmation that we have common experiences even across thousands of miles!
Reflections By Yang Chong
(Tour of the Southern Ridges: A 1st hand experience of how Singapore incorporates economic development with environmental conservation)
The 3 day Singapore leg programme was indeed fun and enriching. First up was the “ice-breaker” day at Sentosa where I first got to interact with a few Chinese delegates and also got to know the other NUS delegates. After that, it was the 2-day NUS programme where we tried to sell Singapore’s strength in ‘sustainable development’ which is currently an ‘in-thing’ in China and also introduced our cultural heritage to the Chinese delegates. Finally, it was the funky farewell dinner which was rather informal and brought the Singapore leg programme to a climax and also an emotional end.
Through the Singapore leg, I have gained a new perspective of the Chinese undergraduates. Born to Chinese-educated parents, having studied in a SAP school and being active in the Singapore’s Chinese Orchestral arena for more than a decade, I am indeed rather familiar with China’s social, economic, demographics etc. But after interacting 1st hand with the Chinese delegates during the Singapore leg, I have sensed that their lives are driven by causes and patriotism. Apart from grades, they are passionate, idealistic, out to change the world for the better and to make a mark for themselves. They are full of energy in pushing causes and promoting projects, ranging from helping disadvantaged families to promoting green energy etc.
On the other hand, I have indeed learnt what differentiates Singaporeans from the Chinese delegates. We do not speak 标准 Mandarin. We speak Mandarin with our Cantonese, Hokkien and all kinds of Teochew accents and phrases. We are also “culturally somewhere in between the Chinese and the West” and are more familiar with both cultures.
(Posing buoyantly at the Henderson Waves: Evidence of the close friendship forged in just 3 days)
Whatever the differences between the Singapore and China delegates are, the Singapore leg programme did gel of us as one. May the friendships forged during be continued decades down the road. May all of our fond memories of this programme be sunk in depth in our heads that it can be one of the milestones of our lives besides commencement, marriage etc. May Sino-Singapore relations not just at the undergraduate level, but at all levels reach greater heights in the years to come….
In the meantime, let us look forward to seeing our China friends in May. CHINA HERE WE COME!
Reflections by Cheryl
1) I was quite apprehensive about joining SSUE because my Mandarin is not very good! I hadn't spoken it in awhile, and it was really rusty. One of my personal hopes was that through SSUE, I would be able to speak the language more fluently. I don't know if I have fully achieved this goal (probably should ask you all that instead) but I am more confident holding a conversation in Mandarin now. Hopefully I will improve more in May!!!
2) 2 significant memories of SSUE: the Southern Ridges tour with my group and the conversations I had with our Chinese friends over dinner in Bedok.
When we went on our walk through the Southern Ridges, it was pouring. We had to share umbrellas and a few of us got quite wet, but our Chinese teammates were really positive and their spirits weren't dampened at all. It was encouraging to see how they were so supportive of our plans and appreciative of Singapore's natural habitat. I decided that we must reciprocate their positivity in May! Walking the trail with them made me see our garden city through new eyes and helped me to appreciate our greenery more too.
At Bedok, we were talking about (among other things) China's history and society. I was struck by how much our Chinese peers really loved their country and felt responsible for her success. It was quite moving to witness their patriotism, and the debt of gratitude/responsibility they felt they owe to China! They made me relook at my position in Singapore and the responsibility I have to bring about her development. When I think about our conversation I feel quite guilty at how micro my views of life tend to be, when my peers in China are thinking about global issues like saving the world and leading their country!
3) I'm really happy to be part of the NUS SSUE delegation! It's been great meeting, befriending and working with you all and I hope it continues into the China leg and beyond! Special thanks to my friends in Group 1 - it was a wonderful 2 days with the 4 of you - and my fellow videographer Mei Yan.
Looking forward to the 2 weeks in China with everyone!
Reflections by Wei Quan
Reflections by Desmond
The little amount of time that we spent with the Chinese delegates was pretty fun. They were really friendly, so the awkwardness at the start quickly dissipated. It was a cultural exchange, with each of us exchanging information about our respective countries. I guess we were equally impressed with each other's cultures. I can't wait to fly off to China to visit all the scenic places that they have mentioned. Visiting China is one of the main highlights of this exchange after all! It has been a great opportunity to make new friends here at SSUE, though I wish there was more time to get to know everyone. With this positive outlook, I'm all excited and looking forward to going to China with everyone!
Reflections by Christine
The Sino-Singapore Exchange Programme rendered me a different set of experiences altogether. The memories are still lingering in my mind and I enjoyed it thoroughly, as much as I hope the Chinese students enjoyed their stay here. I was given the opportunity to interact with counterparts from another country not far from us, and from them I got to learn more about their school life and area of study, and discovered many similarities and differences in our cultures.
We brought the Chinese delegates around Singapore, and for the first time I got to introduce my own country to others. Surprisingly, as I travelled and spent time with the delegates, I learnt along with them, and realized there were actually many things about Singapore that I myself as a Singaporean was not aware of.We also got a chance to put up a performance with the delegates and though the time we spent together could not be considered long, we shared laughter and joy; I believe that was something that will stay with me for some time. I thought the most meaningful aspect of this exchange programme was the opportunity to foster meaningful friendships with the delegates.
Through the short period we intermingled, we conversed much about our school lives and shared our experiences. I thought that was the most memorable part—being able to make new friends. I hope too, that this friendship can be sustained for a long time to come, and I look forward to our trip to China to meet our new friends!Reflections by Elvis
Sustainable development was the main theme of the Singapore leg. Being centric on academia, the quality of research is the main indicator for us. Based on this, NUS has definitely allowed the Chinese delegates to have this impression as compared to other universities. Many commented during the Farewell Dinner about the impressive research work done by NUS!
In pursuit of this theme, tourist attractions were on the main agenda to illustrate such application in our society. Marina Barrage is a good example; my group brought the delegates there on the first day. While sharing with the Chinese delegates on the initiatives that we have, I realised that I also learnt from the trip about my own country, Singapore, from questions posed and what we observed. This made me reflect on certain actions that we took and some historical events, which many of us take for granted. I realised that Sino-Sing Undergraduate Exchange Programme was not a uni-directional flow of information for the respective legs of the trip but also reflection and reminder of how far we have come. Also, in sharing about Singapore, we realised the importance of history and not merely memorising it for the sake of grades.
Reflections by Calvin
It has been a couple of weeks since our first meeting. Initially everyone was a stranger but now all have become familiar faces. Progress was remarkable, especially given the short time span that we had spent together.
In particular, there are some people that I like to thank.
· Hui Sing. She says I shouldn’t call her Hui Sing, but I still do that! Why thank her? Because she stays in Yishun? Exactly, because of that, there were times we took the train together and talked a lot. And she was the very enthusiastic one to invent 欢迎欢迎,热烈欢迎!
· Eugene Teh. He’s mostly kind of in the background because of his built (just like me) but fortunately, he has very wide mouth so it is hard to miss his colgate teeth. He recently became my study mate so that’s when we kind of know one another better. I just found out that he loves to drink milk tea, which is our Teh =) So now everyone can remember how to differentiate between the 2 Eugenes!
· Yu Xuan. He's my enthusiasric pal. From 欢迎欢迎, to 拜拜再见!, we were both there at the airport. And he even came down for the NUS-Chinese delegates rehearsal even though he was rushing from school and needed to go back to school, so he effectively only spent 30mins with us when the travelling to and fro would have taken 1hour.
· Sharon. She was the one who helped to choreograph the dance for the NUS-Chinese delegates so if you think our dance is good, her effort is 功不可抹的. I just realize she also joined dance so now you know who to look for if you need to prepare a performance for the China leg.
· Christine. The main motivator to me to get the NUS-Chinese performance to start. If not for her help, I would have just buried myself in that haystack of assignments. Someone with the trusted brand of quality help and assurance. Is that ISO 9001?
· Wei Quan (Wei Ge) That is to different between Wei Quan and Jun Quan. Wei Ge is the big man with a child heart. And he sees things differently and gets happy easily. He is a responsible man and the person who took charge of Team 3 programme. If you need a liaison officer, he is the one man you cannot miss.
· Jun Quan. So now it is Quan Ge. Do not be mistaken by the straight face and straight look. He has some wacky ideas up his mind and you never know when he strikes! And he is very smart too!
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